When I spoke at Women of Faith last weekend, it was all the more enjoyable because of being on my home turf, Seattle, and having Reneé with me (and Hannah, the only one of my kids who could be convinced to come!).
If you’ve read my book, you know the important role Reneé plays in my story. I try not to miss an opportunity to tell people how amazing she is. Last Friday night was no exception—and better yet, she was right there to hear the applause and affirmation from 4,200 people (mostly women) in attendance.
Reneé is truly a Proverbs 31 woman. I can give countless examples of how she anchored our family during both good times and bad (lots of these stories are in the book!). One of the key moments I like to share is when God called me to World Vision. I was a reluctant recruit. Reneé wasn’t. “If God is calling you, we go,” she said. “The only safe place to be is in God’s will.”
As I told the Women of Faith audience, this meant giving up our dream house in Pennsylvania and uprooting from the community and church family we loved. Not every wife would accept that so willingly. But Reneé had yearned to “open her arms to the poor” (Proverbs 31:20) since she was a little girl. She knew that God was calling us both.
If you’re struggling to discern God’s call in your life, a key source of help might be right there in your own home. Your husband or wife is likely praying for answers, too, and he or she might bring clarity when you’re most conflicted. Listen to your spouse … I always have, and she’s never steered me wrong.


